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Robert Vescio on Balancing Writing and Family as a Single Parent

3/10/2016

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Writing books is not an easy task. Ask any author who is single and no children, or has the space to just write for hours on end without interruption, it is a tough slog. What happens if you throw work and family into the mix, and then add being a single parent. How would you get any writing done? Recently I put the question to a few authors about balancing writing and family life. I received an insightful, real, and honest look into balancing writing and family life as a single parent from Robert Vescio.

So who is Robert Vescio?

Robert started writing children’s stories about eight years ago but he says that he has always enjoyed writing, even way back in high school. After leaving school he worked in the publishing industry for over 12 years and for eight of those years he was a Photo Editor working on a number of photographic Magazines. 

However, it wasn’t until he left fulltime work in 2007, to become a stay-at-home dad, that he began to take writing more seriously. Now he had a great excuse to spend hours in the children’s section of bookstores. As he loved reading books, it made it easy to dive into the world of picture book writing. Robert also says that having his own children helped as well. All he had to do ‘was to observe them and the ideas started rolling in.’

So how does Robert get any writing done? Does he have a routine?

No. Robert does not have a writing routine per se. Rather, he writes either very late at night or early in the morning when the children are asleep. 
“It’s tranquil and I’m left to my own devices with no disruptions. Writing demands thinking time, planning, editing and rewriting.”
PictureIt's a real juggling act.
Every day, Robert has to factor in work, distractions and chores. It is a real juggling act. This is especially evident when his children were younger and he was trying to keep on track with a writing project, and they were wanting his attention all the time. Now that they are older, it is getting easier. These days while Robert’s children work independently on homework and assignments, he fits in writing time while they are occupied with their schoolwork.  

In a recent post on Facebook, one emerging author said that she is often made to feel guilty about taking the time to write while her son is playing. She was made to feel like he was missing out on time with her, even though he was quite happy playing by himself. I am sure many can identify, no matter what you enjoy doing, that, as a parent, when you are doing something that makes you feel fulfilled, you are happier as a person. And that has a knock on effect to the people around you.

Robert used to feel guilty about his writing and the time it took away from his children. Now listen to this…His children NEVER make him feel guilty. If he has been spending a lot of time writing, Robert reviews his schedule and commits to spending more time with his children later. He is now feeling pride at what his hard work is achieving.
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Robert says that he is able to show his children, ‘that if you work really hard at something, not only will you become good at it but look what you can achieve. I’m living proof. They’ve seen that it’s possible, and so a great lesson has been learned.’

Roberts final thoughts on balancing writing and family life:

There has to be a balance between writing and family. My children always come first but it’s okay for me to enjoy writing. The more I enjoy writing, the more my passion will ooze and stand out. And the more my passion stands out, the more my children will learn and grow with me. If you love writing, you’ll find a way to balance the two. 

About Robert:

Robert Vescio is a published children’s author. His picture books include:

Barnaby and the Lost Treasure of Bunnyville (Big Sky Publishing), Marlo Can Fly (Wombat Books) listed on the NSW Premier’s Reading Challenge for 2015, No Matter Who We’re With (IP Kidz). He has more picture books due out in 2016 and 2017. Many of Robert’s short stories have been published in anthologies such as Packed Lunch, Short and Twisted, Charms Vol 1 and The School Magazine NSW. He has also won awards for his children’s writing. Robert enjoys visiting schools. His aim is to enthuse and inspire children to read and write and leave them bursting with imaginative ideas.

For more information, visit: 

Robert on his website: www.robertvescio.com or on Facebook: www.facebook.com/RobertVescioAuthor

I have fabulous news. Robert has just had a new book released this month. Jack and Mia (Wombat Books). How fantastic is that? Jack and Mia are available to pre-order and purchase now through all good bookstores and Wombat Books.

Read the full interview with Robert Vescio over on Just Write For Kids where I also blog.

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5 Comments
guest Karen Tyrrell link
6/10/2016 08:58:49 am

Hi Megan and Robert,

Great interview !!

Cheers,
Karen Tyrrell

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Robert Vescio link
6/10/2016 04:19:00 pm

Thanks Karen for dropping by. ;-)

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Megan Higginson link
6/10/2016 09:11:39 am

Thanks for stopping by my blog Karen. I'm glad that you enjoyed the article.

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Robert Vescio link
6/10/2016 04:21:18 pm

Hi Megan, Thanks again for a great interview and for your continued support. I really appreciated the chat, today. You're wonderful, Megan ;-)

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Megan Higginson link
6/10/2016 05:34:14 pm

Hi Robert. I am delighted to have you on my blog and happy to support a fellow author.

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